Conversion Therapy: Illegal In Cali, Immoral Everywhere

Conversion Therapy Is Not OK

You don’t have to choose between God and homosexuality

California recently became the first state in the nation to ban reparative orconversion therapy, reparative, reparative therapy, gay marriage, gay men conversion therapy for LGBT people. This good news has caused me to remembert my own coming out process and how difficult that was.

I came out of the closet as a gay man when I was 36 years old. My marriage was falling apart. My failed relationship somehow gave me the permission I needed to get honest about my

The Loss of Loss

Every day we get out of bed and assume that our day will mostly go according to plan; my job will be there, the people I care about will be there, my home my car.  We don’t think “gee, today might be the day I get in a bad car accident on the way to work!”  If we did think the worst, we might not get out of bed!   Of course if you cut to the root of the matter, none of these things is guaranteed.  These are assumptions we make all of the time yet in spite of